Hello Minders & Menders,
If you feel disconnected in this fast-paced world, may I suggest a small remedy: become a regular at a local business. Choose a business small enough that the hours shift when the owner has to take their kid to a doctor’s appointment. Small brick-and-mortar shops offer something to patch the moth holes in our society: real connection.
On a visit to a small bookstore a few years ago, I chatted with the owner, who said people-watching in a bookstore is an art. She tried to guess what someone might pick up, but more often than not, she was wrong. One of their best customers—a burly guy with keys jingling from his thick belt—wasn’t expected to buy anything on his first visit. Now, he stops by regularly, often just to chat or sit and read. Independent bookstores prove that old saying true: Don’t judge a book by its cover.
Places and moments like these let us connect with the quiet threads that hold us together. They remind us that beneath the differences, we are all still human.
You don’t have time to support a local business? Would you say the same about spending 15 extra minutes with a friend? Because that’s what you’re doing when you visit your neighborhood bookstore or coffee shop. You’re building a relationship with people and place. You’re visiting a future friend.
Thank you to my past, present, and future local business friends who have grown to be more like family. I’m so excited to see you again soon.
Society grown mothy with estranging screen,
Loosening ties as we feed the machine.
Dust off connection with gentle step in,
Mending the holes as tangled lives begin.
UFF – TADA
Do you have a moth hole growing in your favorite wool hat? Do something ironic and patch it with your favorite wool moth. (There are some really fun options like the pretty Luna Moth). Intimated? It’s worth a try – take a stab at it!
TOOLS: Wool roving, felting needle, wool scrap, felting pad, finger protectors. (Optional: Iron-on backing)
Step 1: Place your small wool scrap on the felting pad
Step 2: Pull a small piece of wool roving from the color you wish to use and slowly stab the wool roving up and down with your felting needle. Shape and design as you wish. (Beginner tip: use a small cookie cutter for your shape, and to keep your fingers away from the needle!)
Step 3: When you are finished with your design, choose an attachment method to adhere it over the moth hole. Methods can include felting directly onto the article of clothing, following the directions on double-sided iron-on backing, stitching with a needle and thread, or even a combination of all three!
